Things I like during the year end

1. Less work in the office. (So, I could be internet's best friend.lol)
2. Peaceful surroundings (Many people decided to clear their annual leaves in the year end, so less people in the office! Yay!)
3. Less traffic congested (This is the best thing ever happened for this week. Wake up at 7.45am, went out from home to work at 8.00 am and reach office at 8.21 am..Is that wonderful?? I feel BLESSed! lol)
4. Less stress (This is the LOW PERIOD yawww! ^_^)
5. The ability to clean up the mess (Regardless whether its work or personal related stuff.. I just love to clean up the mess and straighten the awkward situation when comes to year end. Maybe just to start the new year with the cleaner feeling..I guess? :P)
6. Down memory lane (Its time to remember analyse all my action for the pass 365 days. Phew!)
7. Set the target (Even I hate planning but I love to set some target for the next 365 years. Let see...what should I achieve in 2013 -_-")
8. People are much calm and happy. (lol. That includes bosses, friends and family..they much more relax and enjoying the low period of the year..nothing to rush and all the small issues can be brought forward next year..yay!)

There are few things that I love about year end but I simply think that its unnecessary to blow it here.

Well, till today I cant find anyone who hates the year end as we hate every Monday so much ..every week!:P

3 days and counting to 2013! Yippie!

Dosa kering

Penghujung tahun, bila tak sibuk..inilah masa yang paling mudah aku digoda syaitan dengan segala bisikan-bisikan jahatnya.

Memang jahat setan ni. 

Di dorong nafsu dan pelbagai bisikan yang ditiupkan ditelinga, aku selalunya tewas.

lol.

Ini salah satu sebab kenapa aku memang tak suka jika graf kesibukan dalam konteks pekerjaan semakin menurun.

Its the festive season..i cant help it :'(

No one would work like crazy and people normally waiting for next year.

Next year which will be arrived on a week time. 7 days left!

Bila tak ada kerja, internet menjadi terapi kebosanan.

Media sosial ini kadang kala memanglah menunjukkan "kesialan"nya.

Aku tak pasti sama ada penangan sosial media ni lebih kepada pro atau kontra.

Bagi aku sekarang, ianya banyak beza daripada sebelumnya.

Aku tidak lagi membebel yang ya dan yang tidak melalui Twitter sejak sebulan lalu.

Aku dah tak mengutarakan ayat-ayat hikmah yang berputar belit di Facebook sejak berbulan-bulan lampau..

Bila aku TIDAK SIBUK dan bosan ... aku upload satu dua gambar profil terbaru dan disinilah aku taipkan bait-bait perasaan yang entah apa-apa sebagai kenangan masa akan datang.

Cuma Instagram menjadi satu medium dan aplikasi yang aku selalu lawati dan menaikturun gambar-gambar yang aku rasa "seksi" -_-"

Jadi, bila kita tak mengekspreskan diri kita...kita akan selalu membaca apa-apa posting yang muncul dalam news feed.

Ya ampun....

Aku rasa..Facebook menyebab utama aku mengumpul dosa-dosa kering setiap hari.

Twitter pun macam tu.

Kenapalah aku ada hati yang macam Kak Nam ni?? T___T

*Macammanalah orang dok kutuk aku zaman aku dok berhoohaa dalam twitter dan facebook dulu?*- Amik cermin, malu nak tengok! :P

Aku selalu mohon pada Allah supaya disucikan hati dari sibuk memperkatakan orang lain dengan diri sendiri..

Ya..aku mengumpat dengan diri sendiri setiap hari.

Itu persepsi !

Susah untuk tidak menjadi skeptikal dengan keadaan yang sebegini.

Serius ...itu adalah susah untuk aku.

Lama kelamaan ..aku tanamkan dalam diri- "Lantak pi lah depa! Janji depa happy"

*Sebab aku dulu pun lagi teruk mengexposekan diri sendiri dalam internet* Euwwww! Attention seeker!

Tapi aku dapat beberapa konklusi...

Media sosial ini memang medium untuk kita nak menunjuk-nunjuk!

Medium untuk mendapatkan pujian..

Medium untuk mendapatkan dosa kering dan dosa yang tak pasal-pasal kita dapat..

Walhal, Media sosial ini sepatutnya menjadi medium untuk merapatkan silahturrahhim...

Aku blur. Segan dengan diri sendiri.

Aku akan cuba membaca ditempat lain dari menjadi perempuan kepoh nak amik tau hal orang melalui sosial media. :P

Yang pasti...aku benci bila kerja tak berapa memerlukan kesibukan aku dan kalau rasa macam ni ada...betul agaknya orang kata yang aku dah kahwin dengan kerja. -_-"

Merry Christmas for those who celebrating it! :D

The Meet Up

The last time we've met was in February, I guess..if I'm not mistaken. Iol.

It was really hard to gathered everyone to be at the same place and same time. But finally, we've made it (even as usual- some of us being late)

Too many things to talk and laugh about.
The few hours meet up doesn't simplified every each stories and gossips brought out by each of us.
Most topics are related to work, family and relationship.
And for the first time, I guess I was the least talker during the session.(But as always, became the one who is having a loudest laugh) :p
Maybe it was because I'm the eldest and have a not-so-interesting-lifestory to share. Or I just love to hear more than to talk these days. Haha.

Afterall, it was a very productive meet up as we've planned for our next Perhentian vacation next year. (Yayyyy!!)

Our next meet up need to be done in a month time since we don't think after so many months of keeping the hot stories and gossips..all that can be told within few hours? -_-''
It just can't be done..really..

Anyway...it is always great to have your ex- officemates as one bunch of people who still hold the friendship. I guess..it is beautiful..

Thank you for the time,people!
Esah- I'll pray for your wedding date to be brought forward. ;) Kiki- he's a keeper! LOL
Mini- you worth more than that. You'll find a better place to show your talent soon!
Coco- Your biceps are just too much :p looking good these days. Haha

See you guys in January 2013! ;)

•Lea@Alia•Sent from my BlackBerry® wireless device via Vodafone-Celcom Mobile.

To work or not to work.The Perspective

As I've read some opinions from the world of internet, today

I realized one thing.

A lot of woman these days would want to be a housewife.

Ya.. I had the same thinking years ago.

Lady of Leisure. Sounds NICEEEEEEEEEEE, right?

But, after some incident happened and after tons of consideration, I don't think by becoming a "full-time-hommie" could make me happy.

Really?

Opinion..opinion..opinion.

We live in a different kinds of perspective.

What we think could be right mostly are wrong to certain groups of people and vice versa.

Being a full time housewives takes a lot of courage and patience.

Creativity is also one of the important elements in becoming a successful housewife.

I've tried once few years back.

Staying home was a real great pleasure for the first week and after a month passed, I felt like every moment passes are just too slow and I need some "air" to breath.

After all, maybe I was childless (and still) - cleaning the house, cooking, reading and washing are easily bored me.

It just doesn't bring me anywhere. My achievement of the day was cooking the best meal for the day for the partner and the cleanliness of the house are up to 99%.

My excitement of the day was just waiting for the loved one to came home after work..everyday.

The routine had killed me inside. Even at that particular time, money was never being an issue.

That is my humble opinion.

My mother is also have the same curve of point in my perspective of being a full time housewife.

Shes a wife. A mother of four and taking care of one grandson.

She said " If I can still do..I rather work than staying home.." (Shes been working for 17 years and decided to quit just because of her health issue).

Therefore, if any of her daughter decided to become a full time housewife..she always think that is one of the decision that they might regret later.

Again..in this new era, I can see thousands of men around me are so proud to tell their surroundings on how great their women at work.

Proud husbands especially been tolerating much about their wives who are considered as a SUPERWOMEN.

Proudly tell around that their wives are working in a large MNCs, having a full time job in a great companies /corporatuions with the great pay and top positions.

These types of men are normally considerate, open minded well educated and have giving a higher respect to their lady.

Compared to some men whos having a full time wife at home..they normally doesnt like to talk about the achievement of their wives. Even, they know being a full time housewife is a REAL TOUGH JOB in the world. As if nothing can be told just because the wife doesnt bring any extra income in generating the family economy. (Bloody heck!)

Well, I am career oriented person. Being a lady doesn't mean I cant contribute enough to the society and in terms of economically. Also, being a "collie" doesnt sounds so bad as you'll get the real life experience and paid by end of the month. :)

Therefore, I don't think at this particular time..I want to be a housewife.

Sarcastically people would say a lot of things to against my opinion but somehow... I always believed that No one could ever dictate my life except me.

:)

Some lady friends of mine are holding a great position in their career and yet they are coming from a rich family and they are also a wife and a mother... I can see that they are having a good life even sometimes they also been thinking that they havent got enough time to spend with their kids.

Again in my opinion..."enough time" means what?

When the kids are little..yes.. they need the mother like 24-7.

But when they reach certain age..they'll sure taking their own path in their life journey.

So, whats left for us as a woman?

Still staying at home, doing house chores, lonely and keep waiting for the children to come and visit (just because the kids has grown up and moved out) and WITHOUT ANY PERSONAL LIFE ACHIEVEMENTS?

Those are the things that I always think of when comes to this issue (Ya, Sometimes I had over-thinking)=P

Well, the decision is yours.

As for me, I am sticking to my motion (as for now).

Work for better life! :D