We always heard this phrase - Love hurts
But seldom we heard this-
Love fades
Do you ever feel that your love towards someone is fading away?
Whatever he/she do is no longer an eye candy for you?
Feel annoyed.
Feel uneasy.
Bored and other negative emotions appeared in your heard when you are with them?
My prediction, it means that- your love towards that person is fading away or you no longer LOVE that person like you used to
I always think- how our parents can sustained their marriage for a long time.
How can they live under the same roof for years and years?
Do they love each other so very much everyday? (as if they just met each other 2 weeks ago?)
Its unbelievable!
I think - its a magical and magnificent achievement in each person's life if they could be a LOVEBIRDS all the time.
As a selfish person, I always wanted to know how our parents did that.
Went trough the hardship and the fun time as a couple..be with each other every single day..doing the same routine without feeling bored...?
Do they still love each other like they just said "I do" last night?
Do they still adore their partner's beauty even he/she looks like an ogre now?
Do they still appreciate each other and care for each other fully hearted ("NOT because of - "I'm married, she is my wife/ he is my husband/ or we have kids to take care of" excuses??)
Does the love still exist even he snores like a dinosaur and she always wear baju kelawar every night on bed while sleeping?
and
The love didn't fade even an inch?
or the amount of love is still the same like when they were dating??
So...what about the affairs/scandals happened outside the marriage?
Is that how to show people indirectly that "my love towards my partner is fading away..and we cant get divorce because of the kids also we are so used to each other since we've been married for more than 10 years?"
Salute to those couples...(who is living together for quite sometimes, been doing the same routine everyday, look at the same face before sleep and while waking up... and do the normal stuff as a couple..)I did that once. Even not legally bounded and I wonder whether I could do it again next time..
Its just a rambling... nonsense-ly rambled at 1.56 am, Monday morning.
*Yawn*
